Monthly Archives: May 2015

Give a knack to hurdles from your own experiences life teaches you

The best way to believe in someone is to let him or her believe in you. we keep on wasting out time in predicting if the person next to you is worth trusting. if you are going to do some favor for a person for the first time, you may not make him or her realize the difference. but if you do it the second time you may feel the difference. Maybe you don’t get the return favor in terms of his or her visible actions. but you will notice the changes in the attitude and behavior of that person.

It gives an intense feeling when you get the response from a person who never ever is expected to turn up for you. at the sane time it hurts a lot when you keep your expectations high with a person who ditches you in the last moment. Well, one should not be upset with such ups and downs in life. These incidences make you learn a lot from life and make you stronger. if you are in your early stages of your life you may not understand this fact. But, gradually you will come to know the advantage of learning from mistakes you committed knowingly or unknowingly.

I am passing each moment of my life with new experiences. And I feel proud when I am able to overcome the nuances through the learnings from my own experiences. every day i am growing up with increased confidence to give a knack to the hurdles coming my way.


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Let’s surprise them in a most natural way than ever

Flowers are the best means to capture special moments and emotions in life. The Mother Nature has blessed us with an endless treasure of the natural beauty and the fragrance. Well, many of us must be of the thought that these gentle parts of nature can serve only special occasions. Is it so? Not really. Let’s see how?

Beauty is always appreciated. A beautiful scenic beauty and the lovely tides and the shore can definitely give jolts to your imaginations beyond. Flowers could be the best mood setters for all age groups. Imagine of your mother who is upset with your late arrival last night. How wonderful it would be to present her a beautiful bouquet of roses. The fragrance of the fresh roses can blow away her anger in minutes. Similarly, think of the carpool mom, scout leader, local volunteer or apartment doorman who makes an everyday difference in your life. A surprise bouquet of evergreen orchids is the best and informal way to say “Thanks for making my life easier.” Feel the difference it makes in your surroundings. These lovely natural gifts can spread the seeds of love and emotion.

Surprise gifts are always awaited by your friends, family and all those who are close to you. Even you must have been longing for the same. How about surprising people with wonderful floral gifts? It is not just the bigger ones who mean a lot in your life. They can include your father, mother, siblings, colleagues, teachers and friends. But there are yet a big crowd of people of have been serving in some ways or the other in your life. These special ones may be your hair-dresser who has been regularly giving special cuts to your hair and making you look smarter. Have you ever done anything other than paying bucks? If not then present a small bunch of lavenders to him or her and say that you are simply grateful for his or her dedication. Feel the everlasting difference in the return behavior from the other side. These special people in your life could be many like your neighbors, milkman, your maids, hawker, driver  etc. just give a delightful moment to add colors to their life. Remember there is no reason needed to express gratitude, kindness and positivity. When you feel it is the right time you must go on.

Thus, the lovely flowers can make amazing applications perhaps more than on any android smartphone!


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The adjustment with the invasions

The best way to get to know that you are happy is when your heart is willing to accept the changes around you. Everyone is accustomed to one’s own lifestyle and the environment. And it is painstaking for somebody to adjust when another person or thing intrudes in. Sharing your belongings with others or feeling not much agitated when your surroundings have undergone a sudden transformation, is a signal that you are changing.

I was a much-secluded person when it comes to my own life. I am a very thoughtful persona and love to solve my own mystery myself. Invasions are strictly prohibited in my life. Like, I don’t want to share my comb with anyone. I just don’t want to see my clothes hanging on some else’s body. And most of the times this has happened with me when I was staying at a paying guest accommodation. I used to tolerate initially for the first few rounds, but, unfortunately my mind gets blasted in later strokes.

I don’t say it is a good nature of mine, but it is equally not bad even. Because I have my own life and if I don’t want anyone to indulge into my affairs then definitely they should not.  There are people who don’t mind in such stuff. They are the gods of patience perhaps!

But there comes a time when you know that things are going beyond your appreciations, still you adore them.  When someone asks for my personal belongings, I don’t mind. Or even if I do a little, I love to tolerate. This is the power of attraction perhaps. If they ask me for a cup of tea, I readily would go for it but without feeling any headache. Why? Because we love to enjoy the company. We love all that mess which we hated at some point of time. This is called the adjustment. The love that keeps things at auto adjustment mode.


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