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Just enjoy the best journey of your life without participating in the game of right and wrong

Hi…. Last night got a serious encounter with two of my soul mates. One was my heart and the other one pulling was none other than my brain. I don’t invite them together but still they appeared simultaneously last night. When you are living a wrecked life people sympathize you for a while with the sole aim of knowing what was actually going on in your life. They hardly take any interest in finding out solutions or to lend a helping hand to you. Why? Because perhaps they are the busiest on this planet or they are robbed off all the material possessions with which they could help you. But they have those extra minutes in their watches to keep trying hard to extract information from you with their crocodile tears and smile suited to the situation. These are the people actually who make your life the real misery. And why we give them the importance as if they are the President.

Well, there are several reasons to this. For some it is very difficult to cope with the loneliness even for a moment. There are people who live not for themselves but for such useless section of the society. Others find themselves helpless because they don’t get the relevant support from their family or friends. And there are some who feel as if they have been the neglected part of the nature. But why to sacrifice for anyone?

And when there is a sudden spark in your life with a handful of people in and around your life, you feel the change in yourself. You want to live the moments. But your well-wishers don’t want to let you cheer up. They always find mistakes, wrongs in everything which makes you happy. And you try to set back. This is because they don’t want you to enjoy the moments which they hardly could. Had they ever understood the fact that happiness shared is happiness doubled.

So when you feel the trigger in your life you heart and mind goes along simultaneously. They keep disturbing you “do this” “don’t do this”. And you are entangled into it. But are those moments and people going to wait for you? Never. Don’t let the beautiful time pass away without slightly noticing you. You can live the life. Just if you feel the change positive embrace it. When someone is willing to handshake with your cheeks to bring that curve of smile at your face why are you interrupting? Lucky are the ones who get a chance to smile for with someone else’s efforts. You don’t have to spend your time thinking what is right or wrong. If you feel good and believe that you have not hurt anyone then you are on the best journey of your life. Just take a ride.


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Happiness when shared, is doubled


Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up on his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain off fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window. The other man had o spend all his time flat on his back.

These men became friends and they talked for hours on end.

They talked of their wives,children,homes,jobs,and what not.

Every afternoon,when the man on the bed by the window,could sit up, he would pass his time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man on the other bed began to live for those one hour periods,everyday,where his world would be enlivened by all the activity and colour of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every colour. Thus a fine view of the city skyline could be seen at the distance.

As the man by the window described all the exquisite details ,the other man would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.

Days ,weeks and months passed.

One morning the nurse arrived to bring water for the bath of the two patients. She was awestricken to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.

She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take away the body.

In the meanwhile the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse did the same.

Slowly the man managed to get a view out of the window. But he was surprised to find a blank wall outside. Out of curiosity , he asked the nurse what could have compelled the deceased man, to describe such wonderful things outside this window, which actually do not exist.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said humbly, “perhaps he just wanted to encourage you”.


What is deduced from this incidence???

Is it strong enough to through some impact on us?

Well it is genuine, that you get tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite your own situations. And this is the best modesty one can do.

“shared grief is half the sorrow; but ,

Happiness when shared, is doubled”.

We have so many sharing media today, why to refrain yourself from sharing? Try to bring smile on other’s faces, you will find your wrinkles vanished.


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